These days are not going fine yar, its really too hard to be expected, have not played cricket since passing the board exam of class 10th. I am not having that much talent that i could make it to the reputed engineering and medical college, i am not doing well even after working hard and hard, he is really God gifted and extraordinarily talented guy, he will make it to the AIIMS entrance, i cant do well, what the hell this is packed inside a room surrounded by books and books, how can i manage all the three subjects PCB, PCM it is almost impossible for we ordinary student. These conversations can easily be heard everywhere you go as it is diffused into the air.
Have you ever considered what could be the reasons behind such type of psychology prevailing among the students who is really having the guts to do everything he can. Where the faults lies, Where he had gone wrong, May be it is result of improper decision of career making in a particular field, May be he is having different qualities and interested in which could have been ignored, crushed or remain unrecognised, May be their parents are forcing them to be the part of the rat race and forcing their son or daughters to make career in such a field in which he is interested in and to be able to be honoured in the society on account of his son or daughters achievements. Or i think the reason behind this in most of the cases could be the lack of mentoring, guidance, or the lack of people who will keep their hands on his shoulders at the time of the difficulties or in tough times, when the students started breaking and getting depressed on account of some problems faced by everyone in the preparatory years. These are the things which always forced me to put my feelings about how, we can get rid of such type of psyche, and helps in restoring the real power within and remain Fit, Fine and Focussed.
In fact if you will go into the depth of the concern you will find that most of the people are not living their life, what they are doing is that preparing for living their life in future and this way future never comes and he stops breathing even before living his life in future because of the preparation for living their life in future, and as we know that we never know what will happen in the very next moment. So learning lessons from past and living every moment of the present, drive ur vehicle of happiness towards the upcoming future.
So here is a try from young and amateur writer in the beginning, reflecting the alternatives and what are the ways which could lead to living our life fullest even in the days of preparatory period, which will shape our career in the way we wanted to be.
One day suddenly an idea struck my mind when i was sitting in the room and thinking , is it really the life packed inside a room? Aw i really living my life? And that idea helped of to understand that how can we get the most of our studies at the time when i was thinking of my sixes and fours in the playground and the applaudings and praises which were used to burst in the atmosphere with the clappings and shouting of the spectators. I used to bother that can i get that life again and those moments? Yes my mind says that you can. I asked that how can i get that type of life full of enjoyments? My mind answers in a very comparative way, like this.
That many of you are amateur cricketers and interested in it much greater than study. Here are the two options whether you will go for a cricketing career or live ur life as a cricketer. Nothing is that much easy in this world, everything requires desire, dedication, determination, and devotion towards the goal. I have heard many people saying that MEDICINE IS RATHER A TOUGH CAREER then can you please tell me what is rather an easy career, sometimes i bother if the people cant appreciate then why do they used to help in frustrating or demoralising anyones belief or positive approach, i remember that THE TRAGEDY NOT LIES IN NOT REACHING THE GOAL BUT THE TRAGEDY LIES IN HAVING NO GOAL TO REACH. I think i can enjoy my life as a cricketer at least, PROVIDED, you can relate it to your favourite and interested work to this. Consider your entry into the battle ground of competitions as the starting or the preparations of your cricket career and just wisely think that how much hard work it needs to be the part of the INTERNATIONAL CRICKET TEAM, so that our doctor or engineering career. I bother why dont people see the other side of the cricketers or any other stardom that is their 4D which i have mentioned earlier which leads to the result that is PUBLICITY and everything one desires to have at this age. SRK once tweeted ' STARDOM IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT OR A GIFT. . . . ITS AN ACCIDENT WHICH HAPPENS TO HARDWORKING PEOPLE '
Consider your coachings as a cricket coaching and club where the other students are your competitors to be the part of the team and the teacher is your coach, your classes are the coaching sessions and studying in the room is practising all the things you have been coached. Play with the questions considering the ball and the pen as the bat and your copy as the playground and enjoy it, studying with fun. But my friends no one will praise you, applaud you for solving those things in the practice sessions as of the cricketers also, their centuries does'nt counts in their career stats scored in the practice sessions. And you have to do well in the main exam that is ODI whose performance will be counted and you will be transformed into a man of value and everyone will keep their ears activated from the media to the students to know about the secret of your success, what a joyous moment that will be, unimaginable.
So my dear friends, i am going to mention some of the things and experiences which always helped me to come out of the problem and restore my energy and remain focussed throughout.
1) Atom, a greek word A means ' not' and Tom means ' divisible' on adding we will get the meaning, anything which is not breakable or undivisible. May be neurons in your mind are running and messaging you that what is the relation between an atom and my preparatory years. I am remembring my first day and first class as well in ALLEN, KOTA which started with the word atom, its meaning and its significance in the years of career making. The teacher adviced dear students add the word atom after your last name it will help you to be eligible for the tag of Dr after 2 years. Yes friends it is true, the secret of success lies here, you should have to be patient, energetic, confident, throughout the year or 11th or 12th or whatever you are pursuing, In this way we can add positivity in our life and proceed further smoothly. The most recognised problem amidst the students is that they start breaking, loosing their faith from himself due to some sort of difficulties, probably faced by everyone not a single U. Dear friends always remember that '' Sant Samundra Mein Navik Kushal Nahin Bante '' meaning '' Boatman Never Become Skilled In Still Water ''.
2) So don't divide your energy or the power within, C'mon restore your energy and focus on the things ( Desired ) where you have to shoot or to reach instead of diverting your energy on so many things in one time, it will reduce your efficiency. Why don't you think about the camera lens, you have to focus only on those things which you have to capture, start applying the same case with you and ignore everything which comes in between you and your shooting position, as that of in the case of photography too.
Now at last i am going to mention a part of the post which i have recieved from my elder brother.
God is the author and the finishes of our faith, He will never start something in you which he cant finish. When God put the dream in your heart, He already had a completion date, He can already see it done, you may not see how it can happen, it may be taking a long time, may be all the odds are against you. But if you will keep believing, keep being your best, keep praying, God promises He is going to finish what he started in you.
(Always remember patience and gratitude are the best way to achieve more in ones life)
Best of luck for your bright future and smooth journey towards your goal.
Specially For My Dear Friends And For All Those Who Comes In My Age Group.
By: Md Shabab Anwar
( The Writer Is A Medical Aspirant )
Have you ever considered what could be the reasons behind such type of psychology prevailing among the students who is really having the guts to do everything he can. Where the faults lies, Where he had gone wrong, May be it is result of improper decision of career making in a particular field, May be he is having different qualities and interested in which could have been ignored, crushed or remain unrecognised, May be their parents are forcing them to be the part of the rat race and forcing their son or daughters to make career in such a field in which he is interested in and to be able to be honoured in the society on account of his son or daughters achievements. Or i think the reason behind this in most of the cases could be the lack of mentoring, guidance, or the lack of people who will keep their hands on his shoulders at the time of the difficulties or in tough times, when the students started breaking and getting depressed on account of some problems faced by everyone in the preparatory years. These are the things which always forced me to put my feelings about how, we can get rid of such type of psyche, and helps in restoring the real power within and remain Fit, Fine and Focussed.
In fact if you will go into the depth of the concern you will find that most of the people are not living their life, what they are doing is that preparing for living their life in future and this way future never comes and he stops breathing even before living his life in future because of the preparation for living their life in future, and as we know that we never know what will happen in the very next moment. So learning lessons from past and living every moment of the present, drive ur vehicle of happiness towards the upcoming future.
So here is a try from young and amateur writer in the beginning, reflecting the alternatives and what are the ways which could lead to living our life fullest even in the days of preparatory period, which will shape our career in the way we wanted to be.
One day suddenly an idea struck my mind when i was sitting in the room and thinking , is it really the life packed inside a room? Aw i really living my life? And that idea helped of to understand that how can we get the most of our studies at the time when i was thinking of my sixes and fours in the playground and the applaudings and praises which were used to burst in the atmosphere with the clappings and shouting of the spectators. I used to bother that can i get that life again and those moments? Yes my mind says that you can. I asked that how can i get that type of life full of enjoyments? My mind answers in a very comparative way, like this.
That many of you are amateur cricketers and interested in it much greater than study. Here are the two options whether you will go for a cricketing career or live ur life as a cricketer. Nothing is that much easy in this world, everything requires desire, dedication, determination, and devotion towards the goal. I have heard many people saying that MEDICINE IS RATHER A TOUGH CAREER then can you please tell me what is rather an easy career, sometimes i bother if the people cant appreciate then why do they used to help in frustrating or demoralising anyones belief or positive approach, i remember that THE TRAGEDY NOT LIES IN NOT REACHING THE GOAL BUT THE TRAGEDY LIES IN HAVING NO GOAL TO REACH. I think i can enjoy my life as a cricketer at least, PROVIDED, you can relate it to your favourite and interested work to this. Consider your entry into the battle ground of competitions as the starting or the preparations of your cricket career and just wisely think that how much hard work it needs to be the part of the INTERNATIONAL CRICKET TEAM, so that our doctor or engineering career. I bother why dont people see the other side of the cricketers or any other stardom that is their 4D which i have mentioned earlier which leads to the result that is PUBLICITY and everything one desires to have at this age. SRK once tweeted ' STARDOM IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT OR A GIFT. . . . ITS AN ACCIDENT WHICH HAPPENS TO HARDWORKING PEOPLE '
Consider your coachings as a cricket coaching and club where the other students are your competitors to be the part of the team and the teacher is your coach, your classes are the coaching sessions and studying in the room is practising all the things you have been coached. Play with the questions considering the ball and the pen as the bat and your copy as the playground and enjoy it, studying with fun. But my friends no one will praise you, applaud you for solving those things in the practice sessions as of the cricketers also, their centuries does'nt counts in their career stats scored in the practice sessions. And you have to do well in the main exam that is ODI whose performance will be counted and you will be transformed into a man of value and everyone will keep their ears activated from the media to the students to know about the secret of your success, what a joyous moment that will be, unimaginable.
So my dear friends, i am going to mention some of the things and experiences which always helped me to come out of the problem and restore my energy and remain focussed throughout.
1) Atom, a greek word A means ' not' and Tom means ' divisible' on adding we will get the meaning, anything which is not breakable or undivisible. May be neurons in your mind are running and messaging you that what is the relation between an atom and my preparatory years. I am remembring my first day and first class as well in ALLEN, KOTA which started with the word atom, its meaning and its significance in the years of career making. The teacher adviced dear students add the word atom after your last name it will help you to be eligible for the tag of Dr after 2 years. Yes friends it is true, the secret of success lies here, you should have to be patient, energetic, confident, throughout the year or 11th or 12th or whatever you are pursuing, In this way we can add positivity in our life and proceed further smoothly. The most recognised problem amidst the students is that they start breaking, loosing their faith from himself due to some sort of difficulties, probably faced by everyone not a single U. Dear friends always remember that '' Sant Samundra Mein Navik Kushal Nahin Bante '' meaning '' Boatman Never Become Skilled In Still Water ''.
2) So don't divide your energy or the power within, C'mon restore your energy and focus on the things ( Desired ) where you have to shoot or to reach instead of diverting your energy on so many things in one time, it will reduce your efficiency. Why don't you think about the camera lens, you have to focus only on those things which you have to capture, start applying the same case with you and ignore everything which comes in between you and your shooting position, as that of in the case of photography too.
Now at last i am going to mention a part of the post which i have recieved from my elder brother.
God is the author and the finishes of our faith, He will never start something in you which he cant finish. When God put the dream in your heart, He already had a completion date, He can already see it done, you may not see how it can happen, it may be taking a long time, may be all the odds are against you. But if you will keep believing, keep being your best, keep praying, God promises He is going to finish what he started in you.
(Always remember patience and gratitude are the best way to achieve more in ones life)
Best of luck for your bright future and smooth journey towards your goal.
Specially For My Dear Friends And For All Those Who Comes In My Age Group.
By: Md Shabab Anwar
( The Writer Is A Medical Aspirant )
Thats what i just needed..great post..looking for the update. :)
ReplyDeleteA lots of thanx bro, U r also the first one to comment on my first blog post :-)
ReplyDeletelooking 4ward for sm free tym so that i can update the main part or the backbone of this article.
Updated!
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